The
alarm goes off, provided you remembered to set it the night before. [I have become slightly OCD about setting
early alarms and having numerous reminders on my phone because if I don’t, I
forget or will be late. I’ll miss the
ever-so-important appointment that I waited months to get, I’ll leave a friend
or colleague hanging, or I’ll wake up three hours after I’m supposed to be at
work. Doesn’t really leave you thinking
that I’m a dependable person does it?] You eventually muster up the willpower to drag yourself out of bed and
you start into your morning routine: breakfast, shower, get dressed, brush your
teeth. But for a person with ADHD, this
doesn’t always go as planned. You lay in
bed too long, you put on music and dance around when you should be eating
breakfast or getting dressed, anything and everything becomes a distraction
that’s just begging you to procrastinate a bit, and before you know it, you’re
running late.
You get to school, hoping no one
really notices what time you stroll in at (but they obviously do), sit at your
desk and start up your computer. Email
gets checked, Facebook gets checked, sometimes Twitter or online news articles,
and then you start to piece together what you need/plan to do that day. Most people would then set to work, being
more productive before noon than the student with ADHD will be all day. This is because you have an inherent lack of
motivation and follow through, an unrivalled urge to procrastinate for “just a
little longer.” Plus, you can’t get
yourself organised enough to start working and you just can’t seem to sit still
and focus on anything for longer than 30 seconds. Then guess what? It’s lunch time and you have done nothing
productive all morning. That’s okay,
you’ll stay later tonight and get everything done. You finish lunch and finally start to get
your act together. You get a bit of work
done and start to do some reading but you keep zoning out. You re-read a paragraph three times before
you are actually aware of what you read, and by this time you’ve been sitting
for way too long so it’s time for a walk or a coffee break. By the end of the day, you have completed a
quarter of what you planned and that promise to stay later? Well, it no longer exists because you have
exhausted your concentration capacity for the day, so you head home.
You get home, go for a run or
hit the gym, shower, make dinner, and then you have four hours to kill until
it’s time to hit the sack. Since you
didn’t get much done during the day, you decide to do your work now. You hunker down on the couch (it really
should be at a desk, but I don’t do well at desks so it ends up being the
couch) and start in on the copious number of journal articles you’ve been
meaning to read (again, always meaning to do things) or crack open a textbook. Three paragraphs in and you find yourself
looking around the room, daydreaming, worrying about something completely
irrelevant, the list goes on and on. And
before you know it, you need a snack or the laundry needs to be done or the
floor needs to be vacuumed, anything that will tear you away from those
readings and get you moving. Even
watching your favourite TV show becomes a chore because you just can’t manage
to sit still or focus long enough. Now
you’re blasting your music and dancing around the apartment because you just
need to be moving and when bed time rolls around you’ve once again accomplished
nothing. However, this isn’t always the
case. Sometimes when you’re really
interested in something or you’ve procrastinated for as long as humanly
possible, you end up with a crazy intense ability to zone out the world and
focus solely on the task at hand. These
moments are wonderful, but a lot rarer than the moments of sheer restlessness.
Anyway, you get into bed but you just can’t
shut off your mind. Thoughts keep
racing, you’re worrying about everything all at once, and you start to toss and
turn as you attempt to get comfortable enough to fall asleep. Occassionally, you drift off after an hour or
so. More often than not, you’re out of
bed again, listening to music until three o’clock in the morning. It is only then that you can finally fall
asleep. Unfortunately, the alarm is set
for 7:30 am, leaving only four and a half hours for you to get your beauty
sleep.
Medications help but there will always be that inherent lack of motivation and follow-through, especially when you combine the ADHD with the depressive phases of bipolar disorder. Hopefully one day my "mental health team" will be able to help get me to a state of being stable and productive.